Sexism and Hypocrisy

I've sent the following in as an article submission to Cafemom's The Stir.

I would like to pitch the following;

Husband Cuts Out Vagina and Chucks it in the River

A revision on a piece of misandric garbage by Kim

A 29-year-old Vietnamese man, only identified by his surname, Pan, was sick and tired of his wife's philandering ways and her physical abuse. So he did what any scorned, crazed man would do: He waited until she was passed out from drugs and sleeping pills and cut our her vagina -- with a kitchen knife. Then he threw the removed genitalia in a Taiwanese river like it ain't no thang.

Afterward, he turned himself into police and allegedly told them that he felt no regret for what he did to his unemployed, drugged-out bitch of a wife. Bad. Ass.

Although I consider myself to be somewhat of a pacifist, I must admit, I've always admired a man who has the cojones to cut out a woman's vajayjay. Lord knows I wouldn't be able to go through with it. No matter how much the bitch deserved it. Cutting out a woman's private parts -- with a kitchen knife (a kitchen knife!) no less -- would probably be more punishment for me than the woman itself. Shudder! Blech! Ick!

Then again, I've never been pushed to such a point in my life. I imagine men who are actually ready to go through with ... the deed have reached a place where they literally have nowhere else to go. They've been abused -- physically, sexually, and emotionally -- for far too long, and cutting out the thing that essentially gives women their power must seem like the best only possible option to them.

Pan, who worked at a local karaoke shop to support his family, has been taken into custody on charges of assault. And you know what? I bet he couldn't care less. He probably feels pretty damn good right now."

I'll assume it's obvious at this juncture that this is not a genuine pitch but an attempt to convey how thoroughly heinous the article recently posted by Nicole Fabian-Weber is. Read through it and then tell me you would post it, because if you wouldn't....and we both know that you wouldn't...I'm going to have to call sexism.

I could accept that 'the powers that be' were unaware of just how offensive Ms. Fabian-Weber's article was but, as it is still posted on your site in all it's vile glory, and, as I know you've received correspondence asking for it's removal, ignorance is
no longer an excuse.

However, if you are going to stand on the usual disclaimer, i.e. 'the views and opinions stated on this website do not necessarily reflect'...then I will respect that stance, but I will also be finding a true life story of some man who decided to take matters into his own hands when dealing with his bad wife and responded in a manner comparable to Ms. Weber's heroine. I will expect that article to also be posted because anything else would be blatant sexism and hypocrisy.

Sincerely,

Kim

I would encourage everyone to contact the administration over at 'The Stir' demanding that Ms. Fabian-Weber's article be removed.

Misandrist Bigots

Paul Elam on 'A Voice for Men' has identified Nicole Fabian-Weber, blogger from 'The Stir' as a bigot and place her on the offenders list at 'Register-her.com' for her misandrist comments.

http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/activism/nicole-fabian-weber-placed-on-offenders-registry/

Ms. Fabian Weber has written an opinion piece applauding the actions of a 29-year-old Vietnamese woman who severed her husband's penis with a pair of scissors and then threw it in the Taiwanese River "like it ain't no thang". Ms. Fabian-Weber describes the mutilation as "Bad. Ass." and proclaims that she has "always admired a woman who has the cojones to cut off a man's weenus".

I left the following comment,

The author, and everyone on here who has commented agreeing with her sentiments, is a misandrist hypocrite. Unless, of course, you're all willing and ready to advocate men who have been victims of abusive, philandering wives cutting out the genitals of their wives as retaliation? I didn't think so.

I have a male friend whose wife is a drug addict and a thoroughly unimpressive specimen of humanity. She has cheated on him on countless occasions. She treats their children like the unfortunate family gerbil who's left forgotten in his cage, only to be brought out on occasion to entertain company or what not. She is abusive and she is cruel. She is also a product of her addiction. Addiction changes people and destroys the lives of all around them. Personally, I think he should take the children and leave her. She has done far too much harm already and he needs to put the welfare of the children first. I have not, however, recommended him taking a kitchen knife and, upon finding her in her latest drug induced stupor, cutting out her vagina and throwing it down the trash compactor. I can't even write that without getting the chills and feeling nauseous. Yet, look how cavalierly Ms. Fabian-Weber along with a multitude of other like minded individuals in society, discuss the similar mutilation of a man.

Not only do women justify the irreparable mutilation of men...they applaud it; they laugh and make jokes about it; they call it empowering and herald each new horrific incident as an act of heroic justice. Frankly, I find it all very chilling. We are, after all, talking about actual human beings. Men are not merely symbols of female victimization, to be discarded and used as we see fit in order to further 'the female cause'.

I would encourage everyone to go over to The Stir and express their disgust with Ms. Fabian-Weber and her comments.


http://thestir.cafemom.com/in_the_news/127533/wife_cuts_off_husbands_penis?result=comment_added&comment_state=member&success=1#comments

Slutwalk NYC

I hate to beat a dead horse, particularly one so ridiculous and crass...but why oh why can't the Slutwalk die? I realize some may suggest that stupid bloggers like Kim giving it continued attention may be part of the problem but, sadly, with or without my commentary, it continues to thrive. Some feminists are heralding Slutwalk as the best and biggest thing to happen in feminism in some time, "The future of feminism....A rebellion against sexual standards!" A pathetic and ridiculous display of privileged entitled women with too much time and not enough sense! O.K., I admit....that last bit was mine.

I was of the opinion and hope that Slutwalk, overwhelmed by a wave of ridicule, mockery and scorn, would be quickly swept under the rug and recognized as the embarrassment that it is. Instead, it seems that feminists have finally found a way to connect with the new tide of young women. I guess, in retrospect, I'm not all that surprised by the "movements" popularity. They've also found a way to capture the media and the general public's attention. It's like the Jerry Springer of protests...absolutely appalling and pathetic....but you just can't help but watch.

Of course, feminists view the whole thing in their typical myopic fashion.

http://www.inthesetimes.com/article/12040/slutwalk_nyc_an_important_success_corsets_and_all

"I did see a few women wearing corsets at SlutWalk. They were easy to find—you just had to look for the camera crews—but there weren’t many. More women went topless. This, I soon realized, was brilliant; the press cameras had to stay away from them. The men on the sidewalk were less inhibited; they gathered on stoops, at intersections, or in their fire escapes, holding out phone cameras, rapt with predatory fascination."

Oy vey. So women are strolling down public streets TOPLESS but it's the men who are uninhibited? What the heck were those disgusting leering men thinking? They should have locked themselves away in closets or something so they wouldn't have been able to see the women. If they had any decency at all they would have gouged out their very eyes instead of accosting these poor women with their stares. Women have every right to parade topless through downtown New York City in the middle of the day but how dare men be there and look!

That Slutwalk has been called the "next global feminist movement" should clue feminists in to just how ridiculous their movement has become. I've watched feminism becoming increasingly desperate in it's bid to maintain a semblance of legitimacy for some time now...and here we are. Feminists are overjoyed that they're getting so much attention and completely clueless as to how stupid they look. Not that this should come as a surprise (see Vagina Monologues...another fine example of feminist protest).

Honestly, as one who quantifies herself as anti feminist, I suppose I should cheer on the Slutwalkers. I say "should" because, quite frankly, it's embarrassing. I would much prefer to see feminism die out because a majority of women stood up and denounced it for the hate movement that it is. Instead, feminists themselves have made it almost unnecessary to undermine feminism...as they're doing such a bang up job all on their own. Every overblown, ridiculous claim they make concerning rape, abuse, the oppression of women...does more to invalidate their movement then any anti feminist such as myself could ever do. They've made themselves ridiculous and are well on their way to losing all legitimacy. Of course, as I've stated before, the problem anymore isn't so much feminism...as we see from our Slutwalkers, it's becoming little more than a crude and tasteless joke. The problem is the mess it's left in it's wake.