I started writing this post about a week ago. Hawaiian Libertarian has a great new post on the matter over at his blog I wanted to link to and preface my post with.
http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2007/08/female-predators-in-our-public-schools.html
I've also noted the phenomena of women molesting their male students. Let me begin by saying that I am so sick of hearing things like "they're boys, they probably loved it". The fact that the "she/he wanted it" argument is the defense most often used by pedophiles and rapists aside; I don't care if they did love it. I don't care if every single one of them fantasized every single night about having a sexual encounter with that particular teacher. They are CHILDREN. Children that were molested and taken advantage of by adults that were responsible for their care. Children that were just as violated as any underage girl who's ever been molested by a male teacher. These "women" should all be serving jail time, the same amount of jail time as men convicted of the same crime. What they did is disgusting and inexcusable, and the fact that society should try and excuse them for sexually molesting a child is a fair indication of just how screwed up things really are.
I've been intrigued (and sickened) by the number of instances where attractive, young women have molested their students. I think most of us are shocked to find out that the teacher molesting her 14 year old student is a very attractive woman. I'll give you my take on the matter. I believe that, while in high school and college, these attractive young women were quite popular. I imagine the boys followed them around, eager to do or say anything that would get their attention. Since they were young, beautiful and female, I imagine much of their world revolved around them. I also imagine it was quite a shock for them to learn, once they got out into the real world, that the sun didn't rise and set with them, that they weren't the center of the universe, that in a real relationship, sometimes the focus isn't going to be entirely upon you. I know that a number of the teachers that have committed this crime were married. I imagine they were very disillusioned when they realized that their husbands weren't going to worship them and lavish constant attention and compliments upon them. I think the young boys represented what these women considered the best time of their lives...the time when everything revolved around them. That's just me musing. Conjecture aside, I don't care why they did it, it was wrong and they should be sentenced accordingly. Not according to the precedents being set for WOMEN that have molested their students, but according to what has traditionally been the sentence for a teacher molesting a student.
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And then...how can I say this delicately....?
At least a certain percentage of young girls who are "sexually abused" by (possibly quite attractive) older men such as teachers...er...well...
Okay, here goes: Were little seductresses who enjoyed it!
Whoa! I just stepped over the taboo line with that one!
But yeah, this is the real world....and such things happen!
Teenage girls can lust after older men just as readily as boys after older women. There is absolutely no reason why they wouldn't - particularly if all the males in their peer group happen to be "yucky".
Mind you, I'm not saying this to pull anybody off the hook - just to put matters in perspective.....
Feminism generates such double standards in all realms of life that we often need to reclaim truth and sanity by saying some rather hard things.
@ fidelbogen
No, I agree. I had to argue this one out with my husband because, honestly guys, I think men are more the problem behind these ridiculous sentences then women. I know that, as a mother with sons, I was disgusted and horrified by what these women were doing. My husband saw it in a somewhat...different light. Why? Because he remembers being a teenage boy with a crush on one of his teachers. But, as I told him, that's not the point. I also told him that I'd be willing to bet that there was a case or two of underage girls that had been "willing" recipients of their teacher's affections. Once again, not the point. They are children and their teachers are adults, so consent is never an issue.
My issue is with the punishments. and the way MSM plays it. A male messin with a 15 year old gorl is a peado but a woman (especially if she is "pretty") it is labeled an affair or a trist or even "love".
Bullsh_t. If he is charged as a peado, then so should she. period.
TMOTS
i'd have to say that there is no way ABSOULUTLY no way a 17 y/o male having consensual sex(i dont think there is any other form of sex at 17 for a guy =D *i am 17 myself) with his teacher *no matter her apperance* can be considerd a case of molestation.equally i think this applies to girls as well. however i see alot of 14 y/o cases and even younger, in these cases i think the line is blurred seriously, at 14 i wanted nothing more than to bang my teachers *sorry for being crass* however i think an adult can be very intimidating to a person that age and shoul not be involved in a sexual relationship with them. personally i think there is a hell of alot of grey area here and in every case the emotions of the people involved should be the ones that dictate the outcome not the emotions of spectaters.
If the dude wanted it to happen, it's not molestation!
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